Your
Email Address
If you aren't already thinking of yourself as a product you are trying
to market, it's time you do. Everything you do to get clients is about
selling you. And to be successful at selling your product
against the competition you need to build your brand name. The tag
line you use in advertising, your name and your web domain name are
all part of that. Your email address should help support it.
Break Away From Free Email
Countless escorts use free email accounts. The most popular being
Gmail, Yahoo!, and Hotmail, though there are many others. A Gmail
email account is great for personal email. However for business use
it definitely creates a less-than-professional image. Receiving escort
email from a Gmail email address instantly gives the impression that
the escort isn't running a fully professional business.
Flee AOL
AOL is--bar none--the slowest and least powerful internet service
provider you can subscribe to. That's not biased opinion: it's pure
and simple fact. This is because unlike everyone else they are a
hybrid of current technology and the ancient pre-curser to the internet:
bulletin boards. Not the type we know today, but those old dial-up
BBS's. In an attempt to make their servers appear faster than what
they really are AOL uses a lot of caching. That's where a web page
that has been used is stored in the operator's computer so that
it's quickly available next time a user requests it and it doesn't
have to be retrieved. The problem with that is if the page has been
updated since originally cached. So it often happens that AOL users
are looking at outdated web pages.
AOL markets themselves as being 'the easiest' to use, and that is
something we certainly won't argue with. Fisher Price in-line skates
are the easiest in-line skates too. But you grow up and get a regular
pair of skates, and once you've taken the time to learn them properly
you discover you can go so much faster and do so much more than
you could with those little plastic ones. AOL is commonly referred
to as "the internet on training wheels".
AOL is also very proprietary, which means your access to the web
is limiting and it's difficult to get outside of the AOL universe.
They do not want AOL users going outside of AOL material. One method
they use to try and keep everything in-house is by putting a gate
on your email: unless you make sure the gate is turned off, you
can't even receive email from people who don't use AOL. This is
just one of numerous habits that make their system a problem for
an escort reaching out to the world.
I've heard of escorts who swear they need AOL because they spend
time in AOL's chat rooms to drum up business. However, AOL doesn't
have an exclusive lock on chat rooms--you can find them everywhere
on the internet. Really good ones! And second, if you want to build
quality clientele, why are you hanging around on the virtual street-corner?
Not that there aren't nice guys in chat rooms, but most of the quality
escort-hiring men rarely have time to spend in chat rooms.
From a more ethical standpoint: Steve Case and his wife who own
significant blocks of AOL stock and have both had major voice in
the company, are just two reapers of AOL profits to have donated
millions of dollars to fund anti-gay organizations. While they claim
they are very pro-gay, records show all notable donations from AOL's
big investors are to anti-gay organizations. End result: every month
you give your $25 to AOL you are helping to fund right-wing forces
to fight against you!
Additionally so many escorts have learned that AOL sets 'standards'
that no escort can possibly meet: email addresses such as escort4you@aol.com
will quickly be deleted by the company. Suddenly the email address
you've worked to promote is gone and the clientele you have worked
to build up can't even find you. As countless gay men have also
experienced, AOL also deletes profiles that it feels are 'unacceptable',
which is just about anything that even mentions gay sex. Be warned:
once they've hit you once they keep an eye on you and you'll have
no end of problems with them. Why put yourself through the grief?
And finally we get to email. You remember the mention about AOL
being referred to as "The internet on training wheels"?
Many professional men automatically view AOL users as being unknowledgeable.
They simply assume that for a guy to be using a second-rate web
service, they must not know much about the internet. Before they
know anything you have to say about yourself you've got a strike
against you!
There are countless internet service providers who offer superior
service and most of them are cheaper than AOL.
Consumers have rated AOL as the WORST internet service provider
of all US national ISP's, according to Nielsen reports. How many
reasons do you need to get rid of them?!?
Building Your Brand
So, shouldn't your email address be an asset to you, not a liability?
Make your email address work for you to help build your brand name.
If your web site is www.hotstud.com, why isn't your email address
gary@hotstud.com (assuming your name is Gary)? It should be, and
it can be! Any quality web hosting service will offer this
service, and most will do so without charging you anything extra.
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