Being You
Some guys are targeting suit-and-tie vanilla, others the jeans'n'boots
raunch and everything in between. No matter where you lie you'll be
best served by making sure that in everything you are presenting an
image of high quality. When people see trash on the street they are
much more likely to litter than if they see a street that is kept
clean. The same is true of you: if your image is one of top quality,
you're going to be treated much better and regarded with greater respect.
What is the best style to present? You. Be yourself. If you're generally
uncomfortable in a monkey suit it is guaranteed to show if you try
and fake a caviar image. The market is broad enough to suit all types.
Be genuinely you and you'll be able to relax which will make clients
subconsciously more comfortable around you.
English 101
Grammar is important. Within the context of your personality of course
certain non-dictionary words are not only acceptable but can be a
great way of attracting the guys you want, such as "y'all"
used by someone with a Southern drawl. But keep in mind if your communication
with potential clients shows grammatical errors it is likely to have
an effect on their evaluation of you.
Tell The Truth
Be honest with guys. If your dick is 7.5", you better not tell
anyone it's 8" or they will call you on that when they see the
real thing. If somebody wants to make an appointment and you don't
want to accept them because you're getting a bad vibe, don't tell
them you're already booked up. They may outsmart you and have a friend
call back to book the same time you just said was booked up--then
call you on your lie. You can gracefully turn guys down while not
being either dishonest or rude. Never say you're the 'best': by definition
that means that all other escorts are inferior to you. Talk about
an insult to your peers (who can be your best support network)! And
it will be a huge turn-off to many who see through that un-provable
boast. The higher quality men are the first to notice lies and decline
making appointments not wanting to spend time with someone they feel
they can't trust. In short, lying is going to drive away your very
best clients.
Two exceptions that can work (as long as you are totally consistent):
the first is using a pseudonym. Many escorts work under a false name
and it is generally an accepted fact. But once you've chosen your
pseudonym you had better plan on keeping it for the length of your
career. The second is your age. Many escorts also shave a few years
of their actual age. But make sure you keep track: everyone has a
birthday every year--even escort ages must go up.
Remember, word-of-mouth is an important source of your marketing.
When you piss off one client, that is not just one person you're destroying
future business with. That is them, their friends, their friend's
friends . . . And you don't even know that you're losing all that
business.
Understanding Abbreviations
To know if you're ready to offer what the client is looking for you
have to understand what they're asking. Here's a lexicon of some common
abbreviations used, particularly in instant messaging and chat rooms:
| 420 |
Marijuana |
| B&D |
Bondage and Discipline |
| BB |
Bareback (fucking without a condom) |
| BDSM |
Bondage & Discipline, Dominance &
Submission, SadoMasochism |
| Be |
Bestiality (sex with animals--illegal in
most Western countries) |
| Bl |
Bloodsport |
| CB,C&B |
Cock and Ball |
| CBT |
Cock and Ball Torture/Training |
| CIS |
Complete and Irrevocable Submission |
| CNC |
Consensual Non Consent |
| CP |
Corporal Punishment |
| D&S, D/S |
Dominance and Submission |
| E |
Enemas |
| Fet |
Fetish |
| F |
Fisting (inserting a hand in the anus) |
| FA |
French Active (give blow job) |
| FF |
Fist Fuck (same as Fisting) |
| FP |
French Passive (receive blow job) |
| GS |
Golden Shower (urination as part of sex play) |
| G |
General Audience |
| GA |
Greek Active (top) |
| GP |
Greek Passive (bottom) |
| H/C |
Hurt/Comfort |
| h2e |
Enema |
| I |
Incest |
| M |
Minor |
| N/C |
Nonconsensual Sex |
| NC-17 |
Hard-core adult material |
| P |
Piss Play (same as Golden Shower) |
| P&P |
Play and Party |
| Party |
Do drugs |
| Rom |
Romance |
| SM, S&M |
Sado-Masochism |
| Sc |
Scat (playing with shit) |
| TFTB |
Topping From The Bottom |
| TT |
Tit Torture |
| TV |
Transvestism |
| V |
Violence |
| WS |
Water Sports (same as Golden Showers) |
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