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Being You

Some guys are targeting suit-and-tie vanilla, others the jeans'n'boots raunch and everything in between. No matter where you lie you'll be best served by making sure that in everything you are presenting an image of high quality. When people see trash on the street they are much more likely to litter than if they see a street that is kept clean. The same is true of you: if your image is one of top quality, you're going to be treated much better and regarded with greater respect.

What is the best style to present? You. Be yourself. If you're generally uncomfortable in a monkey suit it is guaranteed to show if you try and fake a caviar image. The market is broad enough to suit all types. Be genuinely you and you'll be able to relax which will make clients subconsciously more comfortable around you.

English 101
Grammar is important. Within the context of your personality of course certain non-dictionary words are not only acceptable but can be a great way of attracting the guys you want, such as "y'all" used by someone with a Southern drawl. But keep in mind if your communication with potential clients shows grammatical errors it is likely to have an effect on their evaluation of you.

Tell The Truth
Be honest with guys. If your dick is 7.5", you better not tell anyone it's 8" or they will call you on that when they see the real thing. If somebody wants to make an appointment and you don't want to accept them because you're getting a bad vibe, don't tell them you're already booked up. They may outsmart you and have a friend call back to book the same time you just said was booked up--then call you on your lie. You can gracefully turn guys down while not being either dishonest or rude. Never say you're the 'best': by definition that means that all other escorts are inferior to you. Talk about an insult to your peers (who can be your best support network)! And it will be a huge turn-off to many who see through that un-provable boast. The higher quality men are the first to notice lies and decline making appointments not wanting to spend time with someone they feel they can't trust. In short, lying is going to drive away your very best clients.

Two exceptions that can work (as long as you are totally consistent): the first is using a pseudonym. Many escorts work under a false name and it is generally an accepted fact. But once you've chosen your pseudonym you had better plan on keeping it for the length of your career. The second is your age. Many escorts also shave a few years of their actual age. But make sure you keep track: everyone has a birthday every year--even escort ages must go up.

Remember, word-of-mouth is an important source of your marketing. When you piss off one client, that is not just one person you're destroying future business with. That is them, their friends, their friend's friends . . . And you don't even know that you're losing all that business.

Understanding Abbreviations
To know if you're ready to offer what the client is looking for you have to understand what they're asking. Here's a lexicon of some common abbreviations used, particularly in instant messaging and chat rooms:

420 Marijuana
B&D Bondage and Discipline
BB Bareback (fucking without a condom)
BDSM Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, SadoMasochism
Be Bestiality (sex with animals--illegal in most Western countries)
Bl Bloodsport
CB,C&B Cock and Ball
CBT Cock and Ball Torture/Training
CIS Complete and Irrevocable Submission
CNC Consensual Non Consent
CP Corporal Punishment
D&S, D/S Dominance and Submission
E Enemas
Fet Fetish
F Fisting (inserting a hand in the anus)
FA French Active (give blow job)
FF Fist Fuck (same as Fisting)
FP French Passive (receive blow job)
GS Golden Shower (urination as part of sex play)
G General Audience
GA Greek Active (top)
GP Greek Passive (bottom)
H/C Hurt/Comfort
h2e Enema
I Incest
M Minor
N/C Nonconsensual Sex
NC-17 Hard-core adult material
P Piss Play (same as Golden Shower)
P&P Play and Party
Party Do drugs
Rom Romance
SM, S&M Sado-Masochism
Sc Scat (playing with shit)
TFTB Topping From The Bottom
TT Tit Torture
TV Transvestism
V Violence
WS Water Sports (same as Golden Showers)
 
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