Your
Safety
Not every client out there is a nice
person. There are some guys with bad intentions who will try and
harm you. At Eros Rising we have heard countless stories from escorts
who have had bad experiences with clients. Most of the time they
admit that if they'd paid closer attention there were warning signs
of possible problems well in advance.
Your best defense in avoiding problems most of the time is to use
your intuition. Listen to the voice inside you and when it says
that something doesn't feel right, don't accept the appointment;
or don't do what the client is asking you to.
If you're going to a client's location make sure that when you keep
your clothing in the same room with you to ensure that a friend
of the client can't be stealing from you while your attention is
with the client. Common sense tells you to always travel as light
as possible: don't take anything with you that isn't needed for
the appointment so that if you do end up being stolen from your
loss can not be very great. Be aware of what was poured in a drink
being given you to ensure you aren't going to be drugged. 'Date
rape' drugs have been used on escorts to either rob them or make
it easy to assault them.
If the client is coming to your home always be aware of where they
are and what they are doing to ensure they can't steal from you.
It has even been known to happen that after an appointment the client
sets the payment on a table, then as the escort turns to show them
to the door they take the money, and the escort doesn't notice it
until moments after they have left!
Never allow a client to tie you up until you've been with them a
few times and built up a level of trust. Once you're tied up anything
can happen!
If using sex toys or allowing a client to fist you make sure you
have a degree of trust with the client. The lining of the anus is
fragile. Objects inserted roughly or too quickly into it can tear
the lining and cause life threatening bleeding.
Whenever you make an appointment, be sure you have some contact
information for them, preferably their telephone number. If there
is identifying information about them they are less likely to be
a flake and not show for their appointment as well as to not mistreat
you since they know they can be identified.
Whenever you make an appointment with a client, write down their
name, the time and length of the appointment, the location, and
the client name and contact information (telephone number), then
give it to a close friend. For extra safety you may want to have
arranged that the friend will be calling you unless you have called
him at a specified time after the appointment.
For guys working in countries where there are legal issues with
escorting there are possibilities of getting arrested in a police
sting. If you ever face this issue there are three absolutely vital
things to remember:
• don't resist. Physically be cooperative with the police.
• be polite. Very polite.
• don't answer any questions. Don't try and tell the police
anything about what you were doing or why. To every question asked
simply respond that you wish to speak to a lawyer. No matter how
smart you think you are, you will later regret anything
you say to the police.
In countries such as Australia, Canada, Germany, and The Netherlands
where escorting is a legal profession remember that the police are
your best friend. If in trouble don't be shy to quickly dial emergency
services. Remember that even in countries where escorting is legal
there are laws about how you conduct business such as licensing.
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